Honestly, it should have been fixed by now, but I digress...
For the entire time that I was using Jaunty and for a few weeks into the release of Karmic, I didn't know what to do. Then I finally did a Google search that produced an amazing result! Here is the temporary "band-aid" that I discovered..
On the host computer...
Applications > System Tools > Configuration Editor
If you don't have the Configuration Editor installed, do a simple
sudo apt-get install gconf-editor
Once the Configuration Editor is open you will need to navigate to
desktop > gnome > remote_access
From here, the check box called disable_xdamage needs to be checked. After that you will be able to remotely access the host computer with refresh.
Happy Remote Accessing!